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Forgiveness — September 17, 2019


Forgiveness is not turning a blind eye to the offence against your heart and saying “God will take care of you”; the true freedom and power that comes from forgiveness is when in prayer we face the offence, face the pain and trauma that was caused within us, face the person(s) who did it to us and choose to cancel their debt upon our hearts because Jesus chose to cancel ours. THEN we release the debtor to the justice of God “with blessings” because, again, Jesus did it for us.

Forgiveness doesn’t cancel the offence or the pain, nor does it mean that what happened didn’t matter or make it right. Forgiveness is putting the offender on trial in the highest courts, listing the pains and personal damages caused, then releasing the case into the hands of the most just Judge and trusting His final judgement, knowing that He has cancelled our own sins, blesses us and heals us in a way only He can.

The freedom and power that comes from forgiveness is released only when, in blind faith, we “release ourselves” from the task of judging the offenders in our lives and let God do His job with it.

Unforgiveness is poisonous spiritually AND physically. It causes us to live a life of bitterness, resentment, rage and wrath. We can’t trust anyone, often not even God, it stunts our Spiritual growth, it creates stress and anxiety, it physically hurts the heart and digestive system, we develop bad eating habits and often turn to substance abuse to try and cope with all the emotions, we don’t want to trust anyone, we’re unable to create new long-term healthy relationships, we’re quick to criticize others and make distorted assumptions, can’t work well with fellow employees and have problems with those in places of authority. This is all the enemy’s plan to keep us from our blessings, prosperities and the plans of glory that God has for us all!

Get the bigger picture? We cannot grow nor build others up in dirty, rotten, poisonous waters. There is a grand purpose for your life and others are waiting for you to rise! Trust God’s judgement and allow Him to restore you, refine you abd cleanse you so that healing can begin and you can receive the liberating freedom and power of forgiveness. I encourage you to forgive and forgive often, tell the enemy he loses every time! True forgiveness will revive you, empower you and lift you to the next level of glory!

You are blessed and you are loved,

beyond measure 🙏🏻

Be Encouraged

Be Inspired

Be Blessed

Written By Inspire Her Life Ambassador

Lilly Rabassa

The Fall — September 7, 2019

The Fall

Vulnerable and Authentic I’m filled with His Presence to share my encounter with prayer that you will be Encouraged and Inspired.

As I was thinking about my 33rd birthday coming up in only 2 days the Lord took me back and showed me moments of my life.

The Fall…

The day has come and she is born. A day many will remember as she brings light for a dark world.
Today she is all grown. A women of God she is. With many dreams and goals, and the excitement of the unknown. But not exempt….
Reality, life, adulthood got on her way. Heartbreak, betrayal, and all that stuff that what today she is able to say “nonsense”. 
The day has come when she has fallen, and even though she could stay down she chooses that she won’t stop, she won’t give up.
When the fall comes, she could believe the lies that she was not good enough. 

But instead, she believed the Lord.

When the fall comes, defeat was what she faced.
But once again she believe the Lord and rose again.
Today she is 33 with new goals and many dreams and leaving a legacy for generations to come, to never give up, even when you fall.
Be Inspired
Be Blessed
Be Encouraged
A True Story by Inspire Her Life Ambassador,
Yaneisy Maldonado  

Let’s wish this beauty a Happy Birthday 🎁

True story by Lilly Rabassa — September 5, 2019

True story by Lilly Rabassa

4 years ago I battled with depression, anxiety, panic attacks and suicidal thoughts. I was facing three back-to-back failed relationships and ended up a single mother of two. In the end, I had given my life to God bc I had nothing left to lose, I literally had lost it all. This particular night I was reflecting and feeling the pain of turning away from a loved one who had abandoned me.

This was when my healing began, 5/26/2015, the night I decided I wasn’t going to dance with panic and pain anymore, instead I decided to write a new story, one where I would come out stronger. In my journal I wrote the following:

“Silence came to me tonight and reminded me of you, how I lost you, how I’m incomplete without you, how I need you. And I faced the silence and made a choice. Will I dance with silence and pain, or will I turn my eyes to the horizon and dance a new dream? Dream into the horizon a dream full of possibilities, a new beginning, a new life, a new -stronger me. Yes, I will dance to the tune of a new dream and rest my faith in my Fathers hands, that He will determine our fates. ”

What healed me was that I turned my focus from the pain of mankind to the hope in my Father’s hands. Since then I’ve made it a habit to reach for my Father’s hands every time I’m faced with life’s difficulties and walk in constant forgiveness bc we’re all imperfect. It’s been quite a journey and I regret nothing! Not even the pain. It was in the pain that I surrendered, in the pain God rescued me, in the pain and from the ashes I was reborn and set free!

Every desire in the depths of my heart God has answered since then, and I have yet a long way to go. But I leave this here in hopes that it inspires hope in someone else and encourages you to trust the One who chose “you”, loves “you”, and will stop at nothing to rescue you too.

Be blessed 🙏🏻💜

A True Story by Lilly Rabassa

Inspire Her Life Ambassador

In the Midst of the Storm — September 3, 2019

In the Midst of the Storm

Nahum 1:7 The Lord is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; he knows those who take refuge in him.
September 2, 2019
As many prepare for the storm I sit and ponder as I have truly not taken any precautionary actions. I was saying to myself you have to be ready but truly I must say I have such a huge sense of peace that it has not allowed me to do anything. I hear the Lord saying you have placed your trust in me.
I had always struggled with trust. Honestly, I’m going to be extremely vulnerable with this. It was always so hard for me. I was always betrayed so trusting someone felt almost impossible. I have had to learn in my walk with Christ that God longs for us to trust Him with every inch of our soul.
Say it…. that’s hard. I get it. It’s hard but it’s possible. It will require that you die to self. God does not want us to be anxious about anything but to always have peace knowing He has us in the palm of His hand.
Philippians 4:6-7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
This takes me to the story in the Bible where Jesus is looking at his disciples and testing Peter. I know someone may read this and say but why would God allow these storms to take place and bring destruction. Can I say we are truly living in the end times where God is on a mission searching for the ones that won’t be moved and won’t allow their faith to be shaken.
As I understand we will all face a storm. We will face major tragedies I take it this way Jesus is walking thru each city, town to search out who will stand in Faith trusting that He is with us. The word says if my people would humble themselves…

2 Chronicles 7:14

If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.

Why would His word say this… because that is exactly what He wants from each of us. Instead of being anxious call out to me says the Lord. His voice will come and He will bring clarity and peace in how you are to deal with the storm that may be coming in your direction.
He wants us to hear His desires so we can know more of His Glory. It’s 10:30pm on Tuesday September 3rd 2019 and I’m finishing this blog realizing that truly it’s Gods mercy over us and His Glory has been manifested.
Thank You Father you have heard the cries of your chosen ones.
Be Blessed
Be Inspired
Be Loved
Love Janelle
New Wine Skins — August 30, 2019

New Wine Skins

New Wine Skins

There is an outpouring

There is New Wine

I could not be satisfied with just being healed and delivered. God

wanted to make US whole….

Something needed to be done in my soul. And let me clarify there is always something needing to be done!!!

There is a new wine… who’s ready?

It’s a Process

He will do whatever it takes to get you to that place where He is able to open you up and make you whole. The question is will you let

Him? When we don’t allow him we

will encounter a sudden block that will put us in a place that HE MAKETH because you are so important to Him.

“He maketh me to lie down in green pastures; He leadeth me beside still waters.”

Psalms 23:2 ASV

We can’t ignore the voice of God. He is wanting to restore our soul. He wants to move us into a place of righteousness.

We all have a story and we must never forget that. Our story is a story of value that will one day fall into the hands of a person so they shall be renewed, restored and inspired to do the same with others.

For those who follow my blog you will see there has been a transition. My original blog was called Reckless Love and today you will start to see more of Inspire Her Life. Maybe some are wondering why but for those that have come to know my heart thru my writing you see the big picture and I hope that it truly inspires you to keep going and never give up.

It was in my season of the Reckless love Of God Where I was being made whole. To God be all the Glory and Honor. He did it. I just held on to His promises over my life.. better said OUR LIFE. Many of my post are truly just sharing my day to day encounters. Moments of brokenness, weakness, vulnerability, transparency which can only be disclosed when you know it’s His Reckless love that has captured you.

I ask that you keep US in prayer for what God has assigned us to do. We love all of our readers, followers and appreciate how you Love us in return… especially when we are all jacked up and have no filter to share our mess with you. This is how we can give all the Glory to our Father for His greatness in our lives!!

Help us share our story so that other will be Blessed, Inspired & Encouraged.

With Love 💕 Janelle

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Established —



“So they got up early in the morning and went out into the Wilderness of Tekoa; and as they went out, Jehoshaphat stood and said, “Hear me, O Judah, and you inhabitants of Jerusalem! Believe and trust in the LORD your God and you will be established (secure). Believe and trust in His prophets and succeed.””


Who am I?

Who are we?

Who are you?

Reading and soaking in the story of Jehoshaphat in the Bible ana having the clear interpretation of what God is speaking into my life this very season. Entering into a new decade in just (4) months yes that’s right a new decade 2020.

Now at the age of 42 looking back and understanding Gods plan and purpose for so many things that have occurred in this journey called life.

Hearing God say when it got ugly, messy, bad, devastating you held on you did not give up, you did not turn away, you did not disappear. You BELIEVED even when others did not believe. You remained faithful, steadfast, grounded, strong, stable, rooted, unmoved, APOSTOLIC, PROPHETIC you birthed and became a Pioneer, Author, conceiver, mother, originator, you have a Legacy.

You have set something that will continue for a long time. It’s not a temporary thing.



Many of a times we just don’t get it. Honestly, your just not suppose to get. He’s Got It. It’s our responsibility to just trust His perfect will in our lives. The moment we think we must have it all figured out we are pretty much saying God “I am ok and I have got this”. Well…. can I just tell you that’s not the correct way to go about life.

It’s so ok to not know …. it’s ok to trust and let go of what you just don’t know. You can’t go around trying to control things that are just not meant to be controlled. Everyday that we try to take control is a day of denial in who He is. The author of our life. The best book Writter on the Universe is our Heavenly Father God!

Would you just say it with me today!!

I am chosen

I am Established

I will not be shaken

I will not doubt

I will not fear

I will not control

I will not be stopped

I will not be removed

I will not be held back

I will not be barren

I will not fight battles that are not for me to fight but Gods.

I am moving in the call God has placed over my life. Today and always.

Be Inspired

Be Blessed

Be Loved

Love 💕 Janelle

CHOSEN — August 19, 2019


“…I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.” Isaiah 43:19

He will make a way where there seems to be no way. In the toughest of situations, this seems to be God’s specialty. And aren’t you thankful?

God has it all figured out. So we don’t have to worry.

He’s working on our behalf even when we can’t see it all. He has a plan and purpose in whatever we walk through. He can cut a clear pathway through anything.

And in seemingly hopeless situations where we can’t see any way out, God’s power has the opportunity to shine the greatest.

It’s in those times when we come to the end of ourselves, where we know we can’t depend on our own abilities, on anything we have, or anyone we know, but instead are reminded that we are totally and completely reliant on Him – it’s those times that are the most powerful of all.

He can make a way through the wilderness and cause streams to rise up, bringing refreshing even in the desert times. He can split the sea, move mountains, or any barrier before us, and allow us to walk through on dry ground.

He can conquer any giant, and bring victory to His children.

He can close the mouths of lions, providing safety.

He can open prison doors, setting us free.

He can protect us from the flames of adversity.

He can carry us through any storm.

He’s the God of miracles. He never changes. For He’s the same yesterday, today, and forever.

And He fights for you today.

So how amazing is He…. my daughter… my seed… had the privilege of meeting Michelle McClain Walters the other day. After the spirit moved Michelle says to my daughter… my seed… I need to meet your mom. A few days later I receive this amazing opportunity to be Prophetess Michelle Walters VIP guest at the 2019 Chosen conference… only God.

Let’s just save this right here for the record!!! My God My God! Won’t he do it!

Can I say this just one more time…

“…I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.” Isaiah 43:19

Be Blessed

Be Inspired

Be Loved

Love 💕 Janelle

Heaven has endorsed you —

Heaven has endorsed you

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.”

‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5:1‬ ‭NIV‬‬


Be Free…. don’t allow anyone or anything to hinder the plans God has for you. Not everyone will understand His plan for your life and you have to be ok with that. I remind myself daily that it’s ok not everyone gets it and their not suppose to.

To I shared with our congregation about rejection. This Judas spirit is strong amongst the people. This spirit will lie to you keeping you captive in a place that holds back the spirit of the Lord from operating in you.

I can’t do it, I’m not prepared, I’m not qualified… let me say Heaven has endorsed you!! You don’t need validation from anyone. You have it from your Abba Father.

“The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “ Abba, Father.””

Romans 8:15 NIV

Man’s Rejection is God’s Protection

Keep this in mind…

Have a vision and don’t let anything or anyone deter you from following it. Take Courage. Put full steam into the next best opportunity you are working on.

Keep a positive mental attitude. Pick up the pieces and dust yourself off. Don’t let rejection cripple you. Let it motivate you. If you focus on positive thinking, even the harshest defeat is only a stepping stone.

Don’t take it personally. Rejection is not a measure of your self–worth. When somebody rejects you, sometimes they are acting on their own insecurities and fears.

Avoid over thinking the rejection. Don’t torture yourself repeatedly, reliving the moments of humiliation and thinking what you could have done to counteract it. If you keep picking at a scab, the wound would keep bleeding and you will never heal.

Don’t feel sorry for yourself and slump into an attitude of self-pity. When we get rejected we trap ourselves in a moment of doubt and distress. Focus on professional and personal (spiritual, emotional, mental, physical) development.

“Rejection doesn’t mean that you aren’t good enough; it just means the other person failed to realize what you have to offer.”

-Mark Amend

Be Free

Be Blessed

Be Inspired

Love 💕 Janelle

Block block block — July 15, 2019

Block block block

Writer’s Block, like the law as a mirror, shows me the need for a Savior. I’ve hurt someone by my words again. I’ve wounded someone by not speaking up again. No matter how hard I try, no matter how many hours I spend writing, rewriting, and editing, I can’t be perfect. When I focus on myself – as a writer, in my other vocations, or simply as a human being – I will always be found wanting.

But the goal of Christian living isn’t perfection apart from, in addition to, or so I can deserve Christ. When the words don’t come, I am pointed back to the Word who came. The perfect Word of God took on human flesh not to make me a perfect writer but so that He could live, die, and rise again so that I could spend eternity with Him. He dealt with the effects of sin not by showing us the way to overcome death, but by overcoming it Himself.

Writer’s Block can, ironically, give us insight into our self-insufficiency. But there’s also a lot that Writer’s Block can’t tell us about the kingdom of God.

My words or lack thereof can’t tell me that I’m a sinner saved by grace alone. But God’s Word does.

In the Scriptures, we see both the depth of our sin and the breadth of the Triune God’s love for us. When we deserved not only silence but condemnation from God, Christ endured the reality of the punishment for sin and the absolute silence of God the Father as He hung on Calvary for you, for me. Because the Father was silent, because He allowed His Word to be slain so that we might live, we will never endure the eternal separation we deserve. The stillness of the garden was shattered that first Easter when Christ rose, defying the silence of the tomb and obliterating the man-made stone designed to block His body. The wages of sin have been meted out, and the bondsmen, for the sake of the Son, are free.

Christ Jesus is the Word who is never dependent on how clever, masterful, or learned we are. He is both Author and Word in the story of salvation, both Creator, and Redeemer. “Were the whole realm of nature mine,” hymnist Isaac Watts writes, “that were a tribute far too small. Love so amazing, so divine, demands my heart, my life, my all.”

If I could write with all the eloquence of Tolkien, the clarity of Lewis, and the passion of Sayers, it would never be enough. Thank God that Jesus is the first and the last, the begotten one present at Creation and the eternal one who is Himself the Final Word.

For you oh God are my run to where I can be reborn, refreshed, recharged to go at it again.

Revelation 21:5

And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” Also he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”

Be Blessed

Be Encouraged

Be Inspired

♥️ Janelle

The enemy is defeated. — January 14, 2019

The enemy is defeated.

enemy defeated

Have you ever found yourself fighting a battle that has already been won.  I do this often… I waste my energy and the enemy steals my peace. God constantly saying No… Don’t listen STOP and ignore the nonsense block the darts that are being thrown in your direction.  He says it clearly “Don’t give into it”.  Truly, I confess it’s hard as a believer can we even begin to think of the non believer…. saying don’t allow yourself to get bothered by the schemes of the enemy is harder then what you think.

1 PETER 5:8  sober [well balanced and self-disciplined], be alert and cautious at all times. That enemy of yours, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion [fiercely hungry], seeking someone to devour.

The scripture says SELF DISCIPLINED thats a jab in the throat for me because clearly I know now that I have to discipline myself to not fall into the trap.

But Lord I am tested on a daily. I hear Him saying do you want to know why?

Here are some reasons…

1. God wants to REFINE us. 

2. To prove to Satan and the world that we are a child of God. 

3. God wants to bless us.

4. God will test us because He wants us to know more of Him. 

5.  To Help us Grow.  

Don’t give in… seek Him for He will give us the strength to overcome. Never rely on your understanding but lean unto God.

Proverbs 3:5-6   Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him and he will make your paths straight.

Be Encouraged, Be Blessed and Inspired,
Love Pj



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