I intentionally created this blog topic to read “Men” Just because I know many women struggle with this area in life and they remain silent. Maybe some of you are thinking this will be a hot juicy read of me throwing shade but I tell you now “Not At All” I won’t be part of belittling man.
After much time studying and understanding the underlying of certain behaviors and actions I come to receive illumination from God as to why of these things.
Many men today suffer in dysfunctional relationships even to end a marriage because of their own personal upbringing. Yes… hear me out. They don’t know any better. I’m not trying to cry mercy on there poor souls I’m trying to say what can one expect.
Many households today are dysfunctional because the Man of the home has not accepted or even embraced there spiritual role as man of the home.
Why? Many encounter a struggle with a women that is confident, with strong characteristics because of her upbringing as well.
Not many women today would tolerate what was seen when they where growing up. They have higher expectations for their life. Another words “I ain’t gonna be like mama”. This is real… this is truth it’s facts 💯
Yes, there are some that stick with it but there is the one “The Lioness” that says No I refuse!!
Being of this nature as a Lioness can truly come to bring intimidation to the man. Because she is set in her ways she does not wait on approval She Roars, She Hunts, She Protects. Men can come to think well why even bother!
That’s exactly where the enemy wants these men to be… in that place of not taking on their role as the spiritual head, the spiritual leader. We must understand and pray to ask God for wisdom on how to deal with such situation. We want to help these men today have a genuine transformation that life does not have to be the way their father shared and that’s even if they had a father around one.
Scripture says in Psalm 133:2
It is like precious oil poured on the head, running down on the beard, running down on Aaron’s beard, down on the collar of his robe
I know …there are ones that don’t encounter this problem at all… but the ones that do need intervention. We can not continue to just stay accustomed to what is not correct.
Generational curses need to be broken as we stand in the gap to raise the future generations.
“He continues to show his love to thousands of generations, forgiving wrongdoing, disobedience, and sin. He never lets the guilty go unpunished, punishing children and grandchildren for their parents’ sins to the third and fourth generation.””
Exodus 34:7 GW
I hope you understand the underlying of the problem issue that you may be facing, know that with the love of God and wisdom that only God can give you too will see this come to an end. I believe oh yes I do.
And I won’t stop until I see it!
Pray without ceasing
Seek wise counsel
And don’t accept Divorce